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if at first you don’t succeed….

kelly here.

the last 24 have been full of ups and downs. yesterday they discovered that dad had some clots in the veins of one leg (not good, but not critical), and in the arteries of the other. clots in arteries are more of a problem because that means that parts of his body aren’t getting the nutrients they need to stay healthy. the doctors have decided to focus on the very large arterial clot blocking most of his leg at the hip. they put him on blood thinners to help his body deal with the rest of the clots (and prevent more from forming) in the mean time. mom apparently had some serious bouts of deja-vu yesterday as she talked to the doctors about the possibility that dad might lose some toes or his foot….yes, that foot.

it was decided to treat the main clot with drugs via a catheter at the source of the clot to limit the amount of drug spreading to the rest of his body. the choice was obvious, but a bit risky because the drug could cause the tumors to bleed out as well. they put him on a lower dose of the drug, and checked it later in the evening to make sure it was working and not causing problems. they put him in the ICU so they could keep a close eye on him.

last night, things were looking up. the big clot was dissolving, and some of the other clots were fading as well. they decided to keep it going through the night and check again this morning. there was talk of moving him out of ICU today, and possibly a trip home later in the week.

this morning, things were less good. the clot hadn’t changed since the test the night before, so they decided to stop the drugs. tomorrow (monday) he’s going to have surgery to remove the big clot. this surgery has some serious risks, which are complicated by the cancer. also, while this will fix the immediate problem, the cancer is causing the clotting, so there will still be issues. It is possible he will be able to go home eventually, providing the surgery is successful, the blood thinners do their thing, and his body cleans up the rest of the clots. but it is also possible that he might not. (wow that was hard to type)

i wish i had better news for all of you. i can’t tell you how much your support has meant to both my parents in the past few months. they are enjoying your comments on this blog as much as you are. please keep them in your thoughts and prayers and we’ll keep you posted as we learn more.

much love,
kelly

10 Responses to “if at first you don’t succeed….”

  1. Vicki Shawger Says:

    Bob, Sue & Kelly - we’re all praying hard for you and hope that all goes well tomorrow. Keep up the fight!!! All the Cradit’s & Shawger’s

  2. Bob Cradit Says:

    Kelly tell your mom and dad that Debi and I have all of you in our thoughts and prayers hoping all goes well tomorrow.

  3. Terri Aprati Says:

    Kelly, I am sure that last blog was really, really hard. We are praying and sending best thoughts from California.

    Love to all

  4. Pat Hornburg Says:

    Sue Bob & Kelly I’m praying so hard for all of you. You are all being so strong. Kelly thanks for the update. We all appreciate it so much. My thoughts are with you all.

    Pat

  5. Mary Anne Fletcher Says:

    Sue, Bob and Kelly,
    Brent and I are thinking of you right now as you face this next crisis. I can tell that you are there for each other and holding each other up. Kelly, your Mom and Dad must be very proud of you and we are very grateful to you for keeping us so well informed.
    All the prayers that I can think of are being said for you all.
    Love,
    Mary Anne

  6. Dianne Moulin Says:

    Thanks Kelly for keeping us updated. I know this has to be very hard for you. Tell Bob and Sue that we are praying for him. We know that this is taking a toll on all of you.

    Love, Dianne and Mike

  7. GEORGE GANT Says:

    BOB, SUE AND KELLY,
    I’LL BE PRAYING FOR YOU ALL
    GEORGE

  8. Mary Beth Says:

    Bob, Sue and Kelly, I a praying for good results. I will be in touch with your mom today. I know this is very hard for all of you…..but keep you chin up…..and our prayers keep coming. Love Mary Beth

  9. Regina Stiehr Says:

    Bob, Sue & Kelly
    Hopefully the surgery today went really well. The ICU is a scary place to visit your loved ones and scarier still to be placed there. I’m thinking about you guys…praying for some good results. Take care and stay strong for each other.
    Regina

  10. Karen Parsons (Spillman) Says:

    Bob, Sue & Kelly,
    Just returned home from 4 days out of town…..wow! what a roller coaster ride for you all for sure! Hoping that by now Bob is home and “shooting up” on his own. Go for it Sue, you can learn how to wield a needle………. :-) I think of you guys every single day and my daily affirmation includes you as well. Hugs to you all….stay strong. Love, Karen

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